Episode 43

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3rd Nov 2025

Sports, Mental Health, and the Power of Belonging

Coaching Wellness: Building Youth Mental Health through Sports

In this episode of Car Ride Conversations for Sports Families, host Valerie Alston continues her discussion with Justin Boger, a board member of the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. They explore the critical role sports play in fostering youth mental health and wellness. Topics covered include current trends in youth mental health, the importance of a supportive sports environment, goal setting, visualization, and resilience-building techniques. Valerie and Justin share practical strategies for coaches and parents to help young athletes build confidence, calm, and resilience. Tune in for valuable insights on creating a positive, growth-oriented sports culture and engaging conversational prompts for sports families.

00:00 Introduction to Car Ride Conversations

00:03 Shifting Focus: Coaching Wellness

01:02 Youth Mental Health Trends

02:36 Building Community Through Sports

05:01 Goal Setting and Visualization Techniques

07:05 Strategies for Mental Toughness

09:38 Celebrating Small Wins

15:23 Discussion Prompts for Families

19:32 Closing Remarks and Call to Action

To reach out to Justin about starting a tournament or project like this email him at jbogers81@gmail.com 


To participate in the tournament please visit: https://usssa.com/baseball/event_home/?eventID=409341  or email the Ankeny Girls Softball Association at: ankenygirls.softball@usssa.com 



Discussion questions:

  1. When do you feel most confident playing your sport? What helps you get to that state
  2. Justin talked about using goal cards and visualization—how could you use something like that before a game or at practice?
  3. What makes a team feel like a safe place to you? How can teammates help each other feel that way?
  4. Think about a time you made a mistake in a game. How did your coach or teammates respond—and what would have helped you bounce back faster?
  5. (Parent add-on) How can we focus on praising effort, attitude, or teamwork more than outcomes this week?





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Car Ride Conversations For Sports Families
Conversation prompts for building mentally tough young athletes while you drive
The ultimate podcast for parents, coaches, and young athletes who want to unlock the secrets to mental toughness, confidence, and resilience. Whether you're on your way to practice, a big game, or just tackling the daily grind, these bite-sized episodes are designed to spark meaningful conversations to equip young athletes with actionable tools to thrive in school, sports and life while building strong relationships with their parents, one car ride at a time.

Hosted by Valerie Alston, former D1 athlete, sport psychology expert, and resilience coach, each episode dives into key topics like building effective self-talk, staying calm under pressure, and bouncing back from setbacks. With real-life stories, practical tips, and relatable insights, you'll discover how to support your athlete's journey while strengthening your connection along the way.

Buckle up and join us for a ride full of inspiration, growth, and the skills needed to become Confident, Calm, and Clutch!

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Valerie Alston

Drawing from a rich background as a former D1 softball player and a Certified Mental Performance Consultant, she boasts over 15 years of experience dedicated to teaching and training Soldiers in the intricate art of mental toughness and resilience. As a distinguished author and coach, she brings a unique perspective to the realm of performance enhancement. Currently, her passion lies in empowering today's youth, leveraging her expertise to build and foster resilience through sports and mental toughness training, ensuring the next generation thrives in both their athletic pursuits and broader life challenges. With a comprehensive approach to athlete development, she extends her expertise to parents and coaches. Committed to enhancing understanding, she collaborates with them to impart valuable insights on building the mental toughness of young athletes, fostering an environment that nurtures resilience and unleashes their full potential.