Episode 16

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28th Apr 2025

“Would you rather?” Questions for the WIN!

Building Strong Relationships with 'Would You Rather?' Conversations

In this episode of 'Confident Calm and Clutch Car Ride Conversations,' host Valerie Alston introduces a fun and engaging way for parents and young athletes to build stronger relationships through conversation. The episode features a game of 'Would You Rather?' with a mix of silly, sport-related, and meaningful questions designed to spark laughter, curiosity, and connection. Valerie shares personal anecdotes and advice on the importance of spending time together and having open communication. Tune in for a delightful car ride conversation that fosters mental toughness, resilience, and confidence.

00:00 Introduction to Building Relationships Through Conversation

00:50 Inspiration Behind the Episode

02:04 Setting the Stage for 'Would You Rather?'

02:39 Diving into 'Would You Rather?' Questions

08:03 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

08:20 Closing Remarks and Call to Action


Discussion questions:

  • Would you rather always play in slow motion or always play with cartoon sound effects in the background?
  • Would you rather have your parent cheer loudly at every game or silently support you from the back row?
  • Would you rather get honest feedback that helps you grow or endless praise that feels good in the moment?
  • Would you rather have to sing everything you say for a whole day or dance everywhere you go?
  • Would you rather be able to teleport anywhere or be able to talk to animals?
  • Would you rather win the championship but play your worst game, or lose in the first round but play your absolute best?
  • Would you rather relive your best sports moment or go back and redo your toughest one with what you know now?
  • Would you rather have a pet dragon or a pet unicorn?


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Car Ride Conversations For Sports Families
Conversation prompts for building mentally tough young athletes while you drive
The ultimate podcast for parents, coaches, and young athletes who want to unlock the secrets to mental toughness, confidence, and resilience. Whether you're on your way to practice, a big game, or just tackling the daily grind, these bite-sized episodes are designed to spark meaningful conversations to equip young athletes with actionable tools to thrive in school, sports and life while building strong relationships with their parents, one car ride at a time.

Hosted by Valerie Alston, former D1 athlete, sport psychology expert, and resilience coach, each episode dives into key topics like building effective self-talk, staying calm under pressure, and bouncing back from setbacks. With real-life stories, practical tips, and relatable insights, you'll discover how to support your athlete's journey while strengthening your connection along the way.

Buckle up and join us for a ride full of inspiration, growth, and the skills needed to become Confident, Calm, and Clutch!

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Valerie Alston

Drawing from a rich background as a former D1 softball player and a Certified Mental Performance Consultant, she boasts over 15 years of experience dedicated to teaching and training Soldiers in the intricate art of mental toughness and resilience. As a distinguished author and coach, she brings a unique perspective to the realm of performance enhancement. Currently, her passion lies in empowering today's youth, leveraging her expertise to build and foster resilience through sports and mental toughness training, ensuring the next generation thrives in both their athletic pursuits and broader life challenges. With a comprehensive approach to athlete development, she extends her expertise to parents and coaches. Committed to enhancing understanding, she collaborates with them to impart valuable insights on building the mental toughness of young athletes, fostering an environment that nurtures resilience and unleashes their full potential.