Episode 62

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30th Mar 2026

What Travel Sports Can Teach Your Athlete Beyond the Game

How Travel Sports Build Mental Toughness, Perspective & Gratitude

Valerie Alston discusses how travel sports can be used intentionally to build young athletes’ perspective, character, mental toughness, adaptability, and gratitude. Inspired by a coaching friend who takes athletes overseas (especially to Italy) to experience different cultures, language barriers, and communal post-game meals, Valerie notes that international travel isn’t realistic for most families but that even trips to other cities, states, or environments can expand a child’s “bubble” when approached with curiosity rather than judgment. She encourages parents and coaches to prime athletes to adapt to unfamiliar routines, facilities, and conditions, and to use travel to gain experiences beyond the field through local food, landmarks, and reflection. The episode ends with conversation prompts for families and ways to engage with the podcast and newsletter.

00:00 Why Travel Matters

01:24 Italy Trip Lessons

03:51 Local Travel Perspective

05:08 Adaptability Mental Toughness

08:06 Gratitude Through Travel

10:31 Make Trips More Than Games

13:16 Conversation Prompts Setup

13:38 Questions For Families

16:58 Wrap Up And Resources

Discussion questions:

  • What’s something you’ve noticed when we travel for your sport that feels different from home?
  • What’s one thing you’ve learned from playing teams in other places?
  • Did anything on this trip make you appreciate something about your life or your routine more?
  • If we wanted to get more out of our travel experiences, what’s one thing we could start doing differently?

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Car Ride Conversations For Sports Families
Develop confident, calm and clutch youth sport athletes while you drive
The ultimate podcast for parents, coaches, and youth sport athletes who want to unlock the secrets to mental toughness, confidence, and resilience. Whether you're on your way to practice, a big game, or just tackling the daily grind, these bite-sized episodes are designed to spark meaningful conversations to equip young athletes with actionable tools to thrive in school, sports and life while building strong relationships with their parents, one car ride at a time.

Hosted by Valerie Alston, former D1 athlete, sport psychology expert, and resilience coach, each episode dives into key topics like building effective self-talk, staying calm under pressure, and bouncing back from setbacks. With real-life stories, practical tips, and relatable insights, you'll discover how to support your youth sport athlete's journey while strengthening your connection along the way.

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Valerie Alston

Drawing from a rich background as a former D1 softball player and a Certified Mental Performance Consultant, she boasts over 15 years of experience dedicated to teaching and training Soldiers in the intricate art of mental toughness and resilience. As a distinguished author and coach, she brings a unique perspective to the realm of performance enhancement. Currently, her passion lies in empowering today's youth, leveraging her expertise to build and foster resilience through sports and mental toughness training, ensuring the next generation thrives in both their athletic pursuits and broader life challenges. With a comprehensive approach to athlete development, she extends her expertise to parents and coaches. Committed to enhancing understanding, she collaborates with them to impart valuable insights on building the mental toughness of young athletes, fostering an environment that nurtures resilience and unleashes their full potential.