Episode 19

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19th May 2025

The Hidden Gaps in Travel Ball: Why Your Athlete May Not Be College Ready

In this episode of Car Ride Conversations, host Valerie Alston is joined by Quincy Lewis-Buggs from Diamond Dynamics to discuss what it truly takes to play college softball. They break down common misconceptions families have about college recruiting, the importance of versatility, and the realities of playing at the collegiate level. Quincy offers invaluable advice on building independence and preparing for the increased competition and responsibilities of college life. This episode is a must-listen for aspiring athletes and their parents who are navigating the college recruiting process. Listen in for practical tips and meaningful dialogue designed to foster resilience and confidence both on and off the field.

00:00 Introduction: The Realities of College Softball

01:16 Meet Quincy Lewis-Buggs: Softball Powerhouse

02:00 The Harsh Realities of College Athletics

04:34 Versatility: The Key to Success

12:24 The Importance of Independence and Life Skills

17:41 Discussion Questions for Athletes and Parents

19:47 Conclusion and Next Steps


Find the Future First, Softball Second Podcast here: https://www.diamonddynamics.org/podcast.html 



Discussion questions:

  • "If you got to college tomorrow, what part of being a student-athlete do you think would be hardest for you — and why?"
  • "How would you feel if you didn’t start right away in college — what would you do about it?"
  • "What are 2 or 3 other positions you think you could learn to play well — and how could you start practicing that now?"
  • "What’s one ‘adulting’ skill you could start taking responsibility for this season to be more ready for college?"



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Car Ride Conversations For Sports Families
Conversation prompts for building mentally tough young athletes while you drive
The ultimate podcast for parents, coaches, and young athletes who want to unlock the secrets to mental toughness, confidence, and resilience. Whether you're on your way to practice, a big game, or just tackling the daily grind, these bite-sized episodes are designed to spark meaningful conversations to equip young athletes with actionable tools to thrive in school, sports and life while building strong relationships with their parents, one car ride at a time.

Hosted by Valerie Alston, former D1 athlete, sport psychology expert, and resilience coach, each episode dives into key topics like building effective self-talk, staying calm under pressure, and bouncing back from setbacks. With real-life stories, practical tips, and relatable insights, you'll discover how to support your athlete's journey while strengthening your connection along the way.

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Valerie Alston

Drawing from a rich background as a former D1 softball player and a Certified Mental Performance Consultant, she boasts over 15 years of experience dedicated to teaching and training Soldiers in the intricate art of mental toughness and resilience. As a distinguished author and coach, she brings a unique perspective to the realm of performance enhancement. Currently, her passion lies in empowering today's youth, leveraging her expertise to build and foster resilience through sports and mental toughness training, ensuring the next generation thrives in both their athletic pursuits and broader life challenges. With a comprehensive approach to athlete development, she extends her expertise to parents and coaches. Committed to enhancing understanding, she collaborates with them to impart valuable insights on building the mental toughness of young athletes, fostering an environment that nurtures resilience and unleashes their full potential.